Tomorrow morning we go back to the doctor and have another ultrasound done, along with the regular monthly check. I guess this ultrasound is more detailed and they measure bones and look hard at all the organs. That should be neat.
My husband is planning to talk to his parents tomorrow about the length of their stay in December. I had been thinking it odd that he wasn't more stressed out about it, but tonight he is feeling it. He is running through different ways that he thinks it might go. I don't really care how it goes...they can take it or leave it...but all the same I know it will be a stressful conversation until it is settled, so I'll be very glad when it is. We will offer to have them stay as house guests for a week up to 8ish days and then if they ask to stay longer he is going to tell them they cannot stay in the house but that he could help them find an air bnb and they could come over some days, with the understanding that it might not be every day or all day because we have other family also and need time just for our own family to settle. Neither of us think they will extend because they won't want to pay for it, and particularly with no promise they can come every day.
We both do feel bad about it and hope it doesn't cause a problem, but we also are both settled on what is best for our family and what would be too much stress, etc.